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Siberian Huskies – What you need to know before buying/adopting one

Our son named our Siberian Husky Haley, after Eminem’s (American rapper) daughter. Haley’s Hungarian name was Helium but we changed it at our son’s request. We have owned her for 2 years and have had an incredibly steep learning curve finding out how to give her (and us) the best life possible. It was not all plain sailing and at one point had serious doubts that we had done the right thing. Now through much trial and error life has become incredibly harmonious between us and our mischievous Haley.

This is MY chair!

I have put together a list of things that should be taken into consideration when homing a husky. I hope it helps anyone trying to decide if a husky is the perfect dog to introduce into your home.

I have added some photos at the end of this list of Haley our mischievous Siberian Husky.

10 things to consider before getting a Husky

  1. Huskies are pack animals. Huskies are pack animals, they like companionship but that does not mean to say you need to buy more than one dog. Your husky will consider you and your family as their pack. They love lots of interaction and will follow you around everywhere. Huskies are not ideal for people who work all day and need to leave the home for many hours. They will cry and howl and likely become destructive and destroy your home.
  2. Huskies need LOTS of exercise. We are lucky and have a huge garden for Haley to charge around and burn off her energy. First thing in the morning she can be seen doing circuits of the garden galloping along so hard the ground vibrates. If you not so fortunate with your outdoor space you will need to take your Husky out walking for at least 2 hours a day, they are extremely high energy active dogs due to their hunting nature and exceptional endurance.
  3. Walkies. It is a wise rule to never let your Husky off their lead when you are out walking. Huskies are stubborn and have terrible recall skills however hard you whistle or call. Huskies also have a strong predatory nature and will chase almost anything that moves. We discovered this in our garden when the lizards come out to sunbath or the little field mice venture from their hiding holes Haley goes crazy trying to catch them, they are mostly quicker than her hiding until she gives up the chase.
  4. Husky Companions. Although other dogs can live very well with Huskies, smaller pets or animals like chickens, cats, mice, birds are usually a bad combination. Even if your chickens live outside your dog will never leave them alone and try everything possible to catch them.
  5. Who is the Alpha? Huskies like to know who the boss is, called the ‘Alpha’. In our family dad is the ‘Alpha’ and his alternating voice tones tell Haley when she has doing right or wrong. It’s a good idea to eliminate bad behavior as soon as it appears. When a husky is bored they will get up to mischief if you do not take control immediately. We NEVER strike her as she has learnt through voice commands if she has done wrong.
  6. Chewing. Huskies love to chew and they will chew anything. Experts seem to agree that this is due to boredom. The solution is to either train your husky not to chew or to provide plenty of toys for them to chew on. Haley as a puppy chewed almost every shoe in the house, chairs and cushions and seemed to have a fascination with socks. We invested in some indoor chew toys for her which she now exclusively chews. As she spends most of her time outside it is not much of a problem as she has lots of bones and squeaky toys to play with.
  7. Security measures. Before homing a husky you need to make sure your outside space is totally enclosed and fully secure. Huskies are extremely agile and have strong back legs enabling them to clear 6ft fences. They are also expert diggers so you MUST ensure the bottom of the fences are impassable to your husky. Haly has escaped a few times which meant we had to raise all our fencing to over 6 feet high. It has to be said they are not escaping because they don’t love you it’s just they are inquisitive, adventurous and very independent.
  8. Howling. Huskies are very vocal, but unusually for a dog they do not bark very often. Instead they howl, or wine and make funny noises as if they are talking to you. Mostly it’s their form of communicating with other dogs or just people in general. We have several mobile food vans coming through our village playing various songs, Haley starts her howling when she hears them, quite funny really. We always know when the vans are coming!
  9. Coat shedding. Huskies have incredibly thick coats that they shed twice a year, unlike other dog breeds that shed year-round. This is called “blowing” their undercoat in the spring and can take 3 to 5 weeks. This can prove to be a nuisance as there are dog hairs EVERYWHERE! Brushing your husky outside helps a lot. In the summer, Haley’s topcoat helps keep her cool. Whilst in the cold weather, her thick double coat does a great job keeping her warm. Huskies can adapt to most climates but in hot weather you need to have adequate shade and continual water available. Haley loves chewing ice cubes in the hot summer months!
  10. Expert Diggers. If you are a gardener with pristine borders and beautiful flowers a husky is probably not a good addition to the family. Huskies are EXPERT and inconsiderate diggers with no regard to your precious garden. Haley digs daily, usually to bury bones or just to make a big hole. Many a time I have de-weeded and tilled a flower bed only to find my nice soft soil in a heap 2 foot away and glaring deep hole! I have taken to fencing off my flower beds but when “mum’s away Haley will play”!
Meeting new friends whilst out walking

We love Haley dearly and through much perseverance and patience have now got a very smart, funny and loving husky. She is a GREAT addition to our home in the Hungarian countryside. We would not be without her.

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Seasonal Photographs

Autumn Colours of Kisszékely, Hungary

As summer turns to autumn, the trees change their leaves in preparation for winter. The village lake looks particularly beautiful with its changing backdrop. The stunning sky as the sun sets gives an ever changing array of colours. These are photographs taken in and around Kisszékely, a small rural village in Hungary.

The tree lined lake into Kisszékely
Carpets of crunchy leaves cover the ground
Picnic benches entice you to sit and enjoy the peaceful lake
Kisszékely Lake with spectacular reflections
Changing colours mirrored in Kisszékely lake
Reflections and fishermen, Kisszékely lake
Little fishing piers lining Kisszékely lake
Forest trails with changing trees
The browns of a fir cone
Ferns changing colour
The night sky, Kisszékely
Changing colours over Kisszékely village
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Everyday Life in Hungary

My first ever music festival – Sziget Festival, Hungary 2019

At the ‘young at heart’ age of 57, I finally managed to go to my first music festival, ticking off one of my many bucket list entries. I love all sorts of music ranging from rock and pop through to folk and classical. My daughter and I chose to stay in Budapest and commute to ‘The Island of Freedom’ festival on a daily basis, using the metro and trains. I did not fancy camping, but many do, braving the inconveniences and seeing it as part of the overall festival experience.

Living in Hungary meant it was easy for me to access one of the largest music and cultural festivals in Europe. The Sziget (pronounced Zi-get) festival takes place annually on an island called Óbudai, a 266-acre green lush island in the middle of the River Danube. The island is reached by walking through an old railway bridge, making this the main entrance to the festival. More than 1,000 diverse cultural performances take place each year, something for everyone even children. We bought a 3 day ticket (the last 3 days) which was ample time to explore the island and see the bands we wanted.

So as a ‘first-timer’ I thought it would be useful to share my tips and photographs with you on what to expect and how to enjoy the festival to its maximum. Fortunately, my daughter is a seasoned festival goer which made things infinitely easier in a lot of respects.

My tips for First-Timers at Sziget Festival

Be prepared for changeable weather. The weather in Hungary is quite predictable usually with an accurate weather forecast. We realised that heavy thunderstorms were forecast on the final day so we decided to invest in waterproof capes to give some protection against imminent storms. The massive music screens also showed thunderstorms but to be honest it did not really matter. We watched bands on the main stage through dramatic forked lightning giving an amazing electric atmosphere but did not experience the rain until the final hours of the show. At the other end of the weather scale, the sun was scorching hot and sunscreen and hats were a must whilst walking around the festival.

Wear suitable footwear. As we were staying off-site we could choose what footwear would be the best. The festival site was absolutely enormous and there were lots of things to see and do. This meant we walked around 12km (7.4 miles) each day. I opted for comfortable trainers which I did not mind getting muddy if the ground got wet. I also had a pair of incredibly comfortable clogs but despite their comfort I did end up with blisters! For the all week festival goers, I would recommend hiking boots, as many people I noticed wore them.

Dealing with queuing. Be patient! When we initially arrived at the festival there were several places we needed to visit before we could enter the festival. First stop, and long queues, was a booth for showing our tickets and obtaining wristbands, getting our money pass and ‘passport’ festival schedule. Next stop was to go through security channels, similar to an airport. The guys were checking random bags for the usual contraband items and alcohol, as there was a no alcohol policy. I was thankful I had a small backpack, easily accessible and fitted all my essentials in. Once through the scanner, we were in! It felt great to be there.

Cashless Festival. A definite advantage in my eyes. A well organised system was in place where we used a barcoded money pass to purchase food and goods throughout the festival. There were numerous booths dotted around the grounds where we could top-up our card if our funds ran low. Using this method of payment meant the queues were fast moving and you didn’t have to worry about exchange rates or the right change. At the end of the festival, we went to the money booths and claimed a refund for what we had not spent on the card. Perfect.

Excellent food and drink outlets. We were amazed at the huge variety of different foods available to buy. The portion sizes were huge and also relatively cheap. There was no need for us to take any sort of food in as we were spoilt for choice. Alcohol was sold at every corner, again at a very reasonable price. We were spoilt for choice and tried many different dishes. We spied a huge choice of pizzas, pastas, burgers, fruit bowls, doughnuts, kebabs, pulled pork dishes, fish and chips, even gluten free options. I particularly liked the Falafel with Hungarian spicy sauce. We didn’t go hungry!

Plan your day. My daughter and I knew who the headlining bands were and had taken the time before coming to the festival to research as many bands as possible, to get an idea of what else was on offer. We wanted to get our money’s worth instead of aimlessly walking around. This proved to be invaluable and each morning we looked at the ‘festival passport’ to plan our day and evening. We managed to pack in as much as possible and saw lots of unique performances and even some we had not planned for. It was worth being organised.

Don’t be shy! We found everyone to be super friendly, sharing benches for eating with total strangers but chatting away as if they were long lost friends. Around 50% of the visitors come from outside of Hungary so it made for a great mix of nationalities. We found a lot spoke English and were only too happy to tell us where they were from and which bands they had come to specifically see. We saw absolutely no trouble at all the entire time we were there, so refreshing in this day and age.

Essentials to take. I appreciate everyone is different but these were the things that we took for the festival in my backpack that I considered to be essential: Hand sanitiser, tissues, lip balm, sun cream, mobile phone/camera, power-pack for recharging, tickets/money/ID, sunhat, sunglasses and some sort of waterproof. I am sure others would add to this list but it worked for us.

Below are a few of my memories of the great time we had at Sziget festival 2019.

My experience of attending my first music festival was amazing and I shall always remember the care-free jovial atmosphere, the brilliantly organised events and realised that age was not a barrier when everyone was there for the same reason, to love and appreciate the music. This will not be my last festival for sure.

Here is just a short clip showing the excellent music and sights that my daughter and I experienced at The Sziget Festival 2019.

The official Aftermovie Sziget Festival 2019 –https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1MLLNEiAj0A

And finally…

Foo Fighters were the AWESOME headliners of the whole festival, if you are a fan you MUST watch this very heartwarming inspirational documentary, about the man in the wheelchair…it brought tears to my eyes. Dave Grohl is one amazing man. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kD7BkZf5V_Q

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Seasonal Photographs

Winter Wonderland in and Around Kisszékely, Hungary

I am English and in common with most British people love talking about the weather! We check our forecasts daily and use it as an opening topic of conversation wherever we go. As Hungary has such definite seasons it’s hard to grumble about the weather because it’s pretty predictable. The four seasons come and go usually at the same time every year. As we have recently had snow, I thought it would be lovely to post my top photos I have taken throughout the winter months. Some from this year and some from last. Our village is equally beautiful in all of the four seasons so shall do the same for each of the season starting with winter.

Driving in snow covered roads, Kisszékely, Hungary
The snowy road into Kisszékely
The frozen fishing lake in Kisszékely
Picture Postcard!
Seats in the snow!
Snow laden trees
Deer Crossing!
Beautiful white trees, Kisszékely fishing lake
The frozen village fishing lake covered with ice and snow
Farm animals out in the snow
Farm donkey in the snow, Kisszékely
Picturesque village lake, Kisszékely
Thatched cottage covered in snow, Kisszékely

I love photography, capturing memories whatever the weather. There is always something different to see. I shall post pictures of future seasons in due course. I hope you loved looking at these pictures as much as I enjoyed taking them.

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Everyday Life in Hungary

Three things we buy from our village farmer

MILK: At the end of the village we are lucky enough to have a large dairy farm. When we first arrived in Hungary we bought all our milk from the local supermarkets. Just by chance one of the villagers mentioned you can buy fresh cow’s milk at the farm. So with a couple of empty plastic bottles, we made a visit to the farmhouse. The milk was stored in a huge refrigerated milk vat and continually machine stirred so the milk did not separate. We paid a small amount of money for our bottles and took them eagerly home. Obviously, we had to pasteurise it ourselves before drinking it. In a large pan, we slowly heated the milk to 145 degrees Fahrenheit, stirring frequently to avoid scalding the milk. Kept this temperature for exactly 30 minutes, then, turned the heat off and cooled quickly, bottled and refrigerated immediately. Then we sat back and enjoyed a wonderful cup of super creamy coffee.

CHEESE: Once we had become friendly with the farmer we also discovered he made his own cheeses too. What luck, we love cheese and were eager to order some from him. The cheese was either plain, or with added red onion or added garlic. We have tried all three and like the plain with red onion the best. It tastes delicious on its own and works well in cooking dishes like Soubeureg which is an Armenian Cheese Pastry. https://cookpad.com/us/recipes/801549-soubeureg-armenian-cheese-pastry We replace the akkawi cheese with the farm cheese and serve it with a fresh mixed salad.

Plain Farm Cheese

MEAT: The last thing we buy from the farm is fresh meat. The farmer will tell us in advance when he has a cow or a lamb ready and go and buy whichever parts we want. Sometimes we wait awhile as he needs sufficient people to buy the animal. It works very well for us. Eric has the butchering skills needed when the meat comes home. We bag and label everything and put it in our freezer all ready to eat.

We are very happy to support our village farm by buying milk, meats and cheeses, we know where our food is coming from and in turn, it helps him too.

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Everyday Life in Hungary

10 things I have learnt from Hungary!

This is a light hearted look at the way I have learnt to adapt to the Hungarian culture and lifestyle. Every country has differences but they do not become apparent until you have spent time observing and learning what’s acceptable and what is not!

Generally, English people are quite reserved and tend to walk with their heads down and not talk to anyone unless it’s absolutely necessary. In Hungary, you hold your head up high and shout “Hello” as a greeting to every person you see. I was surprised to find this happening in waiting rooms of doctors and dentists, a “Hello” when patients walk in and as they leave they say “Hello Hello”. Are you confused? Yes, I was too, Hungarians use the term “Hello” to greet and say goodbye.

English people are generally punctual, in fact, usually early for a timed gathering or meeting. Hungarians take a far more relaxed view of timekeeping, I learnt that a meeting taking place at say 1 o’clock, generally meant they would arrive at 2 o’clock. At first, I found this annoying but realised this is their way of life, unhurried and easy going, I have now accepted this.

As the lowest Hungarian coin is 5 forints, when buying items requiring change of 1,2,3 or 4 forints I have learnt to accept I would not get the change. It took me a while to work out why I was being short-changed, but finally the penny dropped!

You know you are talking like a Hungarian when you can pronounce Egészségedre correctly, the term used to say “Here’s to You or Cheers! This term is also used when someone sneezes, meaning, Bless You!

Palinka (fruit brandy), the potent fiery “cure-all” does not burn my throat as much as it did when I first arrived. Hungarians are very proud of their national drink and will offer it to you at every opportunity, I discovered it is extremely bad manners to refuse it.

Hungarian Palinka (Fruit Brandy)

I seem to be developing Hungarian taste buds as I now add hot paprika to most dishes and REALLY enjoy it. Most people have heard of Hungarian Goulash but the traditional version is called Gulyás and is a soup, heavy on meat, paprika and other spices, prepared in a huge pot usually over an open fire. Absolutely delicious! 

Traditional Gulyás cooked outside with lashings of paprika.

More and more I am finding myself speaking Hungarian words to my husband inside our home, in the past we have only spoken English. They seem to just pop out of my mouth, not a bad thing and a good way to practise. Hungarian is incredibly hard to learn, but I will get nowhere if I don’t try to learn.

If you are a vegetarian (which I was for a time) it can be challenging here as the Hungarians are mainly a nation of meat lovers, favouring chicken and pork for most meals. Not many restaurants have vegetarian options and salads and coleslaws are very different to their English equivalent.

I have discovered that the music played here on the Hungarian radios is mainly 80’s English disco/pop. Our builders had their radios on full blast during the summer months which was sometimes quite nostalgic. Traditional music is played frequently at village festivals, a foot tapping joyous sound which is surprisingly pleasing to listen to. Oh, how my music tastes have changed!

Medieval music played at a reenactment day.

I have learnt that Hungary is a nation of cigarette smokers, and it is rare to see anyone with an e-cigarette. I have an e-cigarette and find it hard to buy oils here. There does not seem to be a health drive as intense as there is in England to reduce or help people to stop. Tobacconists are the only people who are licensed to sell cigarettes whereas in England you can buy them in a variety of places including supermarkets. They are far cheaper here at about £3.50 per pack compared to England at over £10 a pack.

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Everyday Life in Hungary

Bees, Honey and Hungary

Most people love the delicious taste of honey. We buy the local honey and eat it on hot buttered toast, wonderful! Not only does it taste good but it has many healthy benefits too. Honey has a disinfecting effect and gives inflammation relief, particularly for those with sore throats.

Hungary is the largest producer of natural honey with over 15,000 beekeepers throughout the country. Bees are one of the best pollinators in the world but unfortunately, numbers are declining. This is mainly due to the widespread use of pesticides.

We can all do our part to support the dwindling population by providing abundant food sources for them in our gardens. Plant flowers with blooms to encourage them to visit. Different blooms provide different tasting honey. Cherry blossoms, sunflowers, daisies and even dandelions are bees’ best friends.

In Hungary the most famous honey is Acacia Honey taken from the white blossoms of the Acacia tree. Hungary’s unique climate and huge expanses of Acacia forests enable bees to produce a clear pure honey. It has a high sugar content so it does not crystalize, unlike other types of honey, it retains its liquid form for years. 75% of it is exported worldwide.

It is common to see beehives dotted around the forests of Hungary as beekeeping is a popular and profitable industry.

Bee hives are protected with plastic during the winter months.

The Hungarians have even dedicated a day to the beekeepers named St Ambrose Day which falls on 7th December. On 7th December, beekeepers carefully look through their beehives to make sure that their bee colonies are doing ok. People believe that there will be more honey if the bees are carefully looked after on this particular day. On 7th December, traditionally, people drink hot tea with honey, and a lot of families make gingerbread or other Christmas cookies on this day.

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Our Move Abroad

Do YOU want to move to Hungary?

We are English and have been living in rural Hungary for over two years. Below is a list of ten things my family and I considered before we made the move over here.

  • Finances: Ask yourself, can you afford it? Prepare a budget, and do your maths. Look at your income now and decide if giving up your job will leave you sufficient money to live abroad. Hungary is relatively cheap compared to other parts of Europe so that was an important deciding factor for us. We are fortunate to have two rental properties in the UK so we could afford to retire early. If you are of pensionable age then you can have your UK pension transferred directly to Hungary. You will need to decide how to access your money whilst living here. You can open a Hungarian bank account that accepts Forints (the Hungarian currency) and Pounds (the British currency). You can also use services like https://wise.com/ or visit a money exchange to exchange your cash.
  • Use Social Media: Join as many Social Media sites as you can to help you access the cost of living and to ask questions about anything to do with Hungary. Facebook have a variety of groups giving regular useful information. There are also many Ex-Pat groups to be found using Google. Don’t be shy, they are all very willing to help with enquiries, having been in the same situation as you. Another great source of information is https://www.gov.uk/guidance/living-in-hungary
  • Visiting Hungary: Visit your chosen destination/area as many times as you can, especially try to visit in the colder winter months. As we all know places look much more appealing in the summer. Walk up and down the high street to get a feel for the neighbourhood. Hungary is a nation of dog owners and many homes own a dog and they generally live outside. Check out the local facilities, bus routes, corner shops and schools if you need them. Ask yourself is there enough here for me to live happily?
  • Ease of access: Consider how important it is for you to be close to an airport for future visits home. If you have visitors how far will they have to travel to see you? We are a fair distance away which sometimes can be a disadvantage. Check out where the nearest train station is in case you find yourself unexpectedly without transport.
  • Things you might miss: We are a relatively easy to please family when it comes to food. Hungary’s main meats are chicken and pork, and as Hungary is a landlocked country, varieties of fish are limited. However, if you look hard enough and ask around you may be able to get lamb and beef straight from the local farmers. The larger supermarkets may sell foods you are familiar with, Heinz Beans, Bisto Gravy Granules, that sort of thing. Or you can ask your UK guests to bring over a supply of whatever you are missing. You can also look at this British online shop delivering to Hungary http://thebritishpantry.hu/ We like to try the Hungarian foods and adapt our tastes accordingly.
  • Research the Culture: Hungarians are quiet people until they get to know you then they are very friendly and kind. They are very proud of their heritage, particularly amongst the older generation. Hungarians are competitive sportsmen and have had great success in the Olympics. They take their food very seriously adding paprika to most dishes, certainly an acquired taste. If you have the pleasure of being invited into their home make sure you take a gift and be prepared to accept a shot of their national drink Palinka, it is considered rude to refuse it. Learning about another culture is both wise and polite. It helped us a lot when we first arrived here.
  • Learn Hungarian: Hungarian is considered one of the hardest languages to learn. Ask yourself, are you willing to get immersed into your community like a local? If you are you need to learn the language. Integrating can be very hard, particularly in rural areas, where the only language spoken is Hungarian. Consider learning as much as you can before you move to Hungary, at least have a few words to communicate with. It will be well worth it. There are many videos on http://www.youtube.com to help you out or get a phrase book or download to your phone the Google Translate App. You may find that you will need to learn the local dialect, but don’t worry, your learning will increase when you are actually here.
  • What about Health Care?: In the UK public health care is free but it is not in Hungary. You will need to consider either taking out health insurance or as we did, join the Hungarian Health Scheme, we pay a monthly nominal amount to be able to access everything the Hungarians do. Make sure to include this important item on your budget list. The hospitals and GP surgeries are not the same standard as the UK but having said that the health care we have received from the doctors and nurses here has been nothing but excellent.
  • What’s the Weather Like? : Hungary is blessed with four definite seasons, being very cold in the winter with snow to very warm in the summer reaching up to 40 degrees Celsius. Being British weather is discussed on a daily basis! The winters have usually passed by early April giving way to wonderful warm weather and the awakening of mother nature. Hot, then warm days last until late October with all the trees changing to beautiful colours. Ask yourself if this is the sort of weather you would like for your new life abroad?
  • Finally: House prices are cheap here and you can get a bargain property that you may want to use just as a holiday home initially. When you do get to that exciting stage of purchasing, check out how much land comes with your property, ours is vast. Far too much and we are not using it to it’s full potential. We had grand ideas of growing masses of vegetables and keeping livestock but our increasing years have made us realise its jolly hard work. Maybe we shall put the land to use in other ways in the future.
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Everyday Life in Hungary

March Walking Trails around Kisszékely

Every month I take a leisurely walk with my camera exploring mother nature’s changing scenery. This month I took one of the many nature trails around our village.

Translation: Nature Trail, Blackthorn Boulevard
The currently dry stream waterbed running down the hill under little bridges that provide access to homes.
Masses of fir cones just waiting to be collected. They smell wonderful burnt on the BBQ.
In the cliffside, these little doors kept appearing. I assume they are cellars or storage rooms.
Another doorway requiring closer inspection. Could it be the home of a Hobbit?
Continuing up and up the trail, all we could hear were the birds singing.
We found this little chap, sad and abandoned. Raphael adopted and named him Marshall!
A useful information board detailing our route and items of interest. I will be translating it on our return but for now, we just looked at the pictures.
Precarious trees have fallen over giving a rather spooky feel.
Reassuringly we came across a ‘sign’, we were going in the right direction.
The sunshine has brought the tiny blossoms of the fruit trees out.
The village has plenty of these water pumps dotted around the verges for anyone to use.
On our way back home the only traffic to be seen….tractors!
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Everyday Life in Hungary

Our Village Church in Rural Hungary

The most common religion in Hungary is Catholicism. More than 54% of the total population consider themselves to be Catholics. Most of them belong to the Latin rite, and about 3% of the population identified themselves as Greek Catholics. Religious minorities in Hungary are Orthodox Christians, Muslims and Jews.

Our village church is a neo-classical Roman Catholic church built in 1823.  It sits on top of a hill overlooking the surrounding countryside.

The church is reached by climbing many steps, particularly precarious in the winter months.

Interestingly there are engraved memorial stones set in the steps.

There are beautiful landscaped gardens around the church with places for worshippers to sit and appreciate the surrounding nature.